Until recently, the debate about the existence of the G-spot did not stop until one of the American scientists put an end to various speculations by examining the corpse of an old woman. He found that the desired erogenous zone is located on the upper wall of the vagina and feels like a walnut to the touch. When this point is stimulated, a woman reaches orgasm in a short time, with proper and continuous stimulation, the time is reduced to 10 seconds (in rare cases).
Unfortunately, the G-spot has not been fully explored. There are still no answers to some questions: does it exist in every woman, and if so, can one achieve an orgasm from its stimulation?
How to start looking for the G spot
Your partner can look for the G-spot or you can find it yourself. To do this, you need to insert two or three fingers into the vagina, apply a special lubricant to them in advance. After inserting the fingers into the vagina, you need to bend them to touch the upper wall.
Ways to stimulate the G-spot
Insert lubricated fingers into the vagina, with the other hand lightly press the pubic cavity, the fingers inserted into the vagina should move up and down, while you can pay attention to the clitoris, for sharpness. You can do this without the help of a partner. You can also find the spot yourself using a vibrator.
If your partner's penis is naturally bent slightly upwards, then you will have more positions that promote arousal, even classic missionary is included in the bill. Another simple and effective position is for the woman on top and the partners to be face to face.
What is a jet orgasm?
When you stimulate the G-spot, a girl can also experience a jet orgasm. During such an orgasm, a certain liquid is released from the girl's vagina. To get exactly such an orgasm, the partner must insert lubricated fingers and move them up and down the walls of the vagina, this must be done carefully so as not to cause pain. Before that, your partner should help you relax with a massage using massage oil. The girl should lie on her back, bending her knees.
During a jet orgasm, there is a desire to urinate, but this sensation passes quickly and the desired pleasure comes. However, it is recommended for your self-confidence to go to the toilet before the procedure.
If the first time you did not manage to experience any kind of orgasm, do not be discouraged, everything has its time. Sometimes girls achieve results only after 2 weeks of training. You just need to learn to relax and fully trust your partner.
Where is the G spot in women and how to find it? These interesting questions concern almost all modern people. Women want to acquire indelible and incomparable sensations caused by the stimulation of this zone. Men want to please their partners and at the same time increase their self-esteem as talented and experienced lovers. In this article, we tried to describe in as much detail as possible where to look for this magic spot.
The female G-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina, at a distance of about 3-5 cm from its entrance. However, the position range of the point is 1-10 cm. Moreover, it is far from always being in the center of the wall. Often the spot is on the right or left side.
Finding the G-spot is not so easy, but the result will pay off all your efforts. Most importantly, do not forget that in a calm state, the mysterious spot is barely noticeable and does not exceed the size of a pea. In a state of excitement, it swells, doubles in size and becomes well palpable. The spot, or rather the zone, has a slightly rough surface and somewhat resembles a goose or walnut shell, in contrast to the smooth texture of the main part of the sinus.
So, let's start looking for the magic spot:
- First of all, make every effort to arouse intense excitement in your partner. Ideally, try to bring her to orgasm. At the moment before its initiation or immediately after, the point is best examined.
- The most convenient for searching is the position in which the partner lies on her back and her legs are wide apart. Gently insert two fingers into the vagina, feel the area under the pubic bone itself. At the same time, remember that the digital statistics for the location of the G-spot are not an axiom, and for different women the precious zone may not be located in exactly the same places.
- In almost all the fair sex, this part of the vagina is characterized by reduced sensitivity. Therefore, to detect it, it is often necessary to press quite hard and actively on the area under study. Ask the woman to suggest which direction you should move.
- If during your search for a partner you feel the urge to urinate, you are probably on the right track. When you press the G-spot, this reaction, along with a feeling of discomfort, occurs in many women. Don't worry, these kinds of sensations disappear quite quickly and are replaced by a feeling of increasing excitement.
- The G spot looks like a small hard lump, no bigger than a pea. Try to grab it with two fingers. Then begin to rhythmically tighten and loosen the lump, pressing and releasing it, while trying to act strongly and at the same time gently to avoid injury to the delicate vaginal mucosa.
Everyone around talks about the G-spot, but few people talk about other equally important erogenous zones of a woman. If you learn to awaken these points, the orgasm will no longer escape from your nose.
Erogenous zones in women
Many people have heard more than once about the miraculous properties of a special G-spot on a woman's body, but many people do not understand what is hidden behind this name, and very few know about the existence of at least 3 more special spots, the stimulationof which will give a woman particularly pleasant sensations. These same erogenous zones in women are called points A, K, U, that is, the entire "female alphabet" consists of the acronym G-A-K-U.
Let's take a closer look at what these erogenous zones are in a woman's body, where they are located, how to stimulate them and what effect a woman will get from stimulation.
The G-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina at a depth of 4-5 cm from the entrance of the vagina. It is a hypersensitive area of the vagina, measuring 1. 5 to 2 cm, containing 600 nerve endings per square millimeter, unlike other areas that contain no more than 30 nerve endings. That is, stimulating this zone will bring 20 times more pleasure. In women, this erogenous zone can be easily stimulated with a finger or a small vibrator that has the appropriate purpose and shape.
Where are the most erogenous zones in women?
Point A
Where is the woman's erogenous zone called point A? You can find this familiar spot in the front of the vagina, between the bladder and the cervix, it is, like the G, a hypersensitive area measuring 2 to 4 cm. With strong stimulation, the tissues surrounding the uterus begin to contract strongly. and the male penis can penetrate her throat by almost 3 cm. In addition, this zone does not become hypersensitive after orgasm, which makes it possible to prolong the pleasure.
Point K
The K point is located on the back wall of the vagina and the stimulation of this point takes place during anal sex, but provided that the wall between the rectum and the vagina is not too thick. The stimulation of this zone, unlike the two previous zones, does not give emotionally colored experiences, love and affection for a partner, but offers a particularly sharp and vivid orgasm.
Point U
What other erogenous zones do women have? The U-spot is a soft erectile tissue, also penetrated by nerve endings to a greater extent than the surrounding tissues. It can be found in the vestibule of the urethra. When stimulating the U point, there is a strong sexual desire and a desire to urinate at the same time. In this case, the impact is not only on the U-point, but also on Skene's glands, the so-called "prostate gland" of a woman, located throughout the spongy body of the urethra. These zones are individual for each woman and can be located at the exit of the urethra, in the middle of the canal or on the cervix itself. Their position is an important factor in the sensitivity of the U-spot. During normal sex, the U-spot is not affected, so it must be stimulated separately, with circular movements of the finger. Simultaneous stimulation of the G and U spots in women sometimes leads to the so-called "squirt" and multiple orgasms.
There is an opinion that the main male organ is the phallus. All erogenous zones are concentrated in it. In fact, in the body of every man there is another powerful sexual tool that actively participates in every sexual intercourse. This refers to the prostate gland or, in other words, the prostate.
In a crisis of passion, few people remember the presence of a protector. And completely in vain. She, like the main male sex organ, is very sensitive to stimulation. Some sexologists place it on the same level as the female G-spot, because a competent effect on the prostate is accompanied by an unforgettable pleasure.
How to find this mysterious zone on a man's body? >
- Before you start looking for the precious spot on your partner's body, ask him to do a little preparation. A man should ideally cleanse the bowels and empty the rectum with an enema, which will make massaging such an intimate place more aesthetically pleasing.
- Do your best to make your partner relax and trust you completely. His inner uncertainty will lead to the contraction of the sphincter and the complete failure of your sexual experiment. Find out from the man if he really wants to be a part of it. Otherwise, instead of bright pleasure, he will feel only discomfort and pain.
- Clip your nails without fail. If you have extended nails, do not even try to start looking for the G-spot, as this is fraught with the appearance of microtraumas on the rectum of your loved one.
- Wash your hands thoroughly, not only before, but also after searching and finding the precious spot. Do not touch the hand used in the examination to the male genitalia or your genitalia, and even better, use disposable gloves. Thus, you will protect yourself from a variety of microorganisms from the partner's colon, which can lead to the development of inflammatory processes.
- Do not start looking for the prostate at the beginning of intercourse. It is better to transfer it to the moment when you feel the imminent onset of climax. Otherwise, you can simply ruin your partner's sexual mood and even make him feel uncomfortable.
- Give your man a loving massage, starting from the head and moving smoothly to the stomach and back. Pay special attention to the buttocks. Massage your partner with soft and gentle movements.
- Let your man lie on his back. At this time, you will calm down between his legs and very gently and carefully insert your finger into his anus, while not forgetting to use petroleum jelly or a special lubricant. Move forward about 4-5 cm and try to feel on the front wall of the intestine from the side of the abdomen a lump the size of a chestnut.
- Alternatively, you can ask your partner to take a knee-elbow position or lie on the side, preferably on the right, and press your knees tightly against your stomach. This position will not only make it easier for you, but also allow a man to experience multiple orgasms. In this pose, the pelvic muscles are maximally relaxed.
A full sex life is a guarantee of good health, excellent mood, youth and family happiness. In order for both partners to get complete pleasure from intimacy, you need to know how to find the ji point.
Stimulation of the erogenous zones allows both the man and his partner to achieve orgasm.
The fact that there is a special place - the ji point, they began to talk about it in the middle of the last century. There is still no consensus on where the g-spot is. Women usually have no problems determining its coordinates.
This part is located on the front wall of the sinus - from 3 to 5 cm from the entrance. What the erogenous focus itself looks like can be seen in a special video. There are also photos in which a particular part looks like a small bean.
To recognize the ji point, it is not necessary to study the video. This part is quite palpable by tactile inspection. If this area is stimulated, then there is a significant increase in size (in some women several times).
Finding an erogenous spot is not at all difficult, for this you need to feel the front wall of the vagina. This area will be rougher and rougher, which is not typical of the rest of the mucosa.
The easiest way to find the g-spot is when a woman is sexually aroused. This zone is less sensitive for every girl, so it needs to be additionally and actively stimulated. To master the practical techniques of such stimulation, you can watch the video.
When sexual intercourse occurs, there is no stimulation of the g pole, so some women have doubts about the presence of such a part. Each of the girls has it individually. Therefore, to detect the presence of the ji microband, one of the optimal poses should be selected.
These include the following provisions:
- The partner is back.
- the girl takes the rider's stance and leans back hard.
Even a careful study of a video or photo is not always helpful in finding the answer, how to find the ji point? That doesn't mean your sex life will be any less impressive.
Point ji is truly a unique place. However, for most women, emotional rather than physiological sensations from sex dominate. Some girls note that they do not enjoy the stimulation of the erogenous g chakra at all.
The older women are, the less important it is to use the g-factor to achieve orgasm. It should also be taken into account that, according to sexologists, the task of finding a hypererogenous point is relevant only for women who cannot experience orgasm at all.
How to determine the coordinates of a partner's ji point?
If the problem of the location of the ji area in women can be solved using a tactile method, then the question of how to find the g-spot of a partner is not difficult at all.
Finding such a position in the male half is even easier, you don't even need training videos. Analogous to the ji point is the prostate gland.
There is such an erogenous place near the urethra from the bottom of the bladder (this is shown in the video). To reach a man's "g-spot", you must use the anus. In practice, it looks like this: a finger is gently inserted into the anus and a slight bulge is found on the side of the abdomen. This will be the g zone. It is located about four to five centimeters from the entrance to the anus.
Not all men will like such unusual sexual activity of women. Some representatives of the stronger sex negatively evaluate such attempts by women to find a place for erogenous stimulation.
Another important note: the partner should not have long, sharp nails. If he managed to find the g-zone, then it is better to use a special lubricant for caressing. All these actions must be performed very delicately.
If partners decide to find a unique g-zone, then it is advisable to use different methods. You can watch the special video above.
By mutual consent, try to find the precious object called "g-spot" through tactile investigation. For some couples, the magic g transforms intimate life, making it even richer and more alive.
By exploring each other's bodies, lovers can achieve real pleasure!